I just could never judge those who choose otherwise. 1)Sexually Transmitted Diseases (Sex with lots of people increase the chance that you have them) Problem is you cant take that back, youre just hoping they pop out the same number lol. Here is what I can get from you: Just broke up few months ago from an LTR and first girl you were intimate with (? Interesting. Its a selfish attempt to keep a woman to yourself even if you dont have feelings for her, you want her to keep her pussy tight. Or cheated or whatever. If you hold on to those toxic mindsets, they will leak out. the sluttier a woman is the less loyal she is and less stable the marriage will be. She's not who she's going to be, young women can be very insecure. insert kylo ren meme here. I can understand your disagreement with people sleeping around. Not too many women want a man that other women dont want. I'm looking for ways to reflect on this situation so I can movie forward in not let my toxic behavior leak out. reply. A woman can own her body without giving it to every Tom, Dick, and Harry who comes along. This month marks the 20th anniversary of Elizabeth's return home and on this week's episode of All In, we speak with Chris Thomas who acted as spokesperson for the Smart Family throughout their entire experience in searching for Elizabeth. He is allowed to his opinions and values as much as u are allowed to your body Likewise, promiscuity is also very common in women with trauma in their past (e.g., rape, molestation, physical and emotional abuse, etc.). A Woman or Man that sleeps with 100 people is emotionally DEAD! Thank you for your writing this article. Press J to jump to the feed. was a bad (abusive) relationship. Nobody wants to end up with the town whore who every guy has ridden. Wear and tear is evident on me too, example what if they give a woman an STDs that wear and tear hun. All in all if you truly love someone I think it shouldnt matter. The average women doesnt care. If instead, we asked, "Would you marry a man who had sex with more than 15 people", the first thought that would pop into my head would be "15? Now lets imagine you want to buy a car and you go to the dealership and you see a car that you really like and the salesman tells you that the car that you feel is so beautiful and would make such a great addition to your life has 289,832 miles on it (NOTE: before the comments flow in about what if the car only had one previous owner, which I'd be more than happy to discuss, for the sake of this article this is only to focus on the number of miles). Your going to get what you want, were going to see if you want what your going to get. You want to beat these entitled, feminist pigs guys? So I just focused on the specific concern of the number of men a woman has slept for this. had sex with so many people, but then you fall in love and you dont want to great number of men for the same reason. Dont say something here different from what u will o. I think men and women should be judged the same. The world is hard on us women. Women need to stop judging other women. Its just societal ideals and norms. you have issues so you didnt have problems with your wife introducing you to her exs and flirting with them..?? Your point about language is interesting and not one I have considered. I swear this world has turned into Sodom and Gomorrah all over again.. No one should be lied to in a relationship. 18 Reply r3l_b 4 yr. ago A man does not want to have to compete with previous Mr. Big. Humans have emotions. 1. Just dont call the guy u miss out on him immature or insecure It is actually a fact that the more partners a woman has had, the more likely the marriage is to fail, source:https://socialpathology.blogspot.com/2010/09/sexual-partner-divorce-risk.html Again, you say the past shouldnt matter. To people who are in love with someone that has had sex with I saw her the next day and asked why she acts like that toward me, and she said "BECAUSE YOU'RE UGLY". Stop posting this stupid things. So I guess what I want to say is yes, you do have the right to sleep with anyone as long as youre safe, and I would never call you a slut or judge you etc.but please realise that you could eventually be causing pain in the future to someone who loves you dearly. You're young and these are hard to discern at first, but you can do it with practice. I know plently of them. I dont know if i should open up anymore or not. woman who values herself. Choosing a good partner can have a major impact on your well-being. Unbelievable, everything you just said is exactly my situation, wow, literally everything (except the friends bit)! Well written article. If u lie they woild find out. Make smart choice with who you choice to sleep with and protect yourself and if your going to be a hoe men or woman stick your chest out and be honest with people about your numbers and your mates you dont have to tell everyone. I understand the value of myself, we all make mistakes, but the underline issue is not excused for neither party. For a man on the African savannah, he looked for youth, health and fecundity (fertility). You cant turn a ho in to a housewife. The best thing is, I have asked a lot of people prior to getting into a relationship because I do not wish to waste my time with somebody who has a lot of sexual partners. I have always been happy go lucky and respectful of myself. Reply 122. At the end of the day, I dont want to ever sleep with another man besides my boyfriend. Men and women are different. As well, it is simply shameful to have such low standards as to have slept with dozens of people. They are seeking love. Independent. So I completely understand where you are coming from and again I think it is a very good arguement. Great burger? Women have also the right to have fun. My friend hoes often do not look like hoes.. but they still are Why do you like her? Now if the real reason you hold this against a woman is because you dont want to have to compete with the level of pleasure her past lovers provided, well you just need help then. No I dont want to do it again. Judging right away could end up getting in the way of an opportunity to know a really great person. Those refusing to acknowledge a persons sexual past are really the ones insecure about it, not those who ask. for adults. I dont really care how many people she has been with within reason, however I do want to know what I am dealing with, and I would like to know whether she would be completely honest with me, IF I DESERVED IT! And people who are so quick to judge others usually have some self-esteem issues. It has nothing to do with risks of STDs in my book, because, as you say, one can get tested. Women want a guy who wants a woman to love and respect herself to value a But what about the woman who is completely secure with herself, single, and likes to have sex. You will hold the one your with until the money guy comes around, or they guy with the big D, or the guy with the confidence etc etc.its so fake and so bad for evolution tbh. Ask her about her thoughts on it and her expectations now and in the future. Third, women have the power of their womb. I don't judge her for what she has done I'm more worried about her being able to commit to one person after doing what she has. It is difficult for women like that to pair-bond. Sorry, no thanks. Its not a mutually exclusive proposition Paola. But its so true guys have to work harder. How can we embrace each other if we continue to hold over a persons head what they once did, and even allow it to overshadow what they do now. Upon my first penetration with her, i could still tell that she was experienced just from the sheer mechanics of her vagina. Enter your info below and join my VIP list. That is all we need to continue our happy lives. You know I feel you Jennifer. So there is something much deeper going on. I think you deserve to know the truth. If she communicates she wants or needs something different than what you want, thats okay. CLICK HERE to download this special report. I never said I wanted to date you or anyone like you, so your comment, No one is saying you have to date us, is a bit of a non-sequitor. What matters in the end is if they are a genuinely good person or if they at least have good intentions. YOU WOULD OWN THAT SHIT. Who has moved forward and disregarded her past. How detailed you can get depends on how much your lover can take. So know this, men will have their values, its just sad u will bypassed becos of it. Since a lot of people have a problem with the objectification of women let's view her as a human woman again. Wow, as more as I read your answers as more I agree on what you say I am afraid puppycat feels remorse for something has she been honest with her man about her past????? Its like seeing a movie, all is in the past. Dont marry & dont give them kids. That just tells men you will move onto the next best thing when it comes to you. so what this nigga is saying is, Its alright to marry a whore, right? You are the choices you make and the life you live. So I have to make the decision..do I want her after the wear and tear of 200 men?? Do me a favor and email me this question to advice@stephanspeaks.com Im having all advice questions directed there. Guess what? take her to my babysitting job and we can babysit the little kid and eachother ;) to my work, she can help me move machines and i can help her move her machine ;) maybe take her to a big scary movie called CLOWNS R KOOL and then buy her a balloon. If he looks upset, I'll just say something like, 'I'm sorry,' when he stops talking. If she isnt what you need her to be currently, then of course keep it moving. intimacy enough. Press J to jump to the feed. So you may want to take a deeper look in trying to understand the problem and how to better approach it. But sadly they werent. Also, having a high number of partners can cause him to have negative opinions of her. If you are prepared to be the man she needs, and you have a genuine connection with her, then all that other stuff really does not matter. I KNOW that I am not missing out on anything. Its just a choice u made and a chance you took. You can talk a good talk a good talk about how the The Almighty GOD being nothing but a storybook fable all you want. Strawmen. Create an account to follow your favorite communities and start taking part in conversations. But I hope u find the great guy tho. He is happy, so should the number hold that much power and the relationship end? The past is relevant to understanding who the person was and now is. Accross nations, the average man gets married 2 years after women get married. Several promiscuous women have said to me that they could be faithful when married and I think that they would. Redpill and PUA groups can't do that because their inherent premise is that women are lesser and that abusive action is acceptable toward them. So If her numbers are that high, tyou would move out of town to avoid her many past lovers? Most of it was a hard learning lesson for me. If her vagina still makes you come who cares how loose or tight it is. 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